The Case Against Donald J. Trump for President, as seen by a housewife, mother, writer and believer in human rights
I spend way too much time browsing my Facebook feed and being shocked and appalled by the misinformation that is out there. Mostly alt-right nonsense—all of it crazy as a shoebat—but some far left stuff, too. I’ve written about the potential collapse of the marketplace of ideas before. If too many non-truths are accepted as truth, the marketplace of ideas—the very cornerstone of freedom of speech and expression—is in danger.
However, what has struck me recently is that those who are clinging closest to Donald Trump right now are those who read and re-post the alt-right websites—and those people are afraid. I get it. I’ve visited these alt-right sites. If I believed half of what I read there, I’d never let anyone in my family outside our house, and I’d probably put shutters and bars on all the windows, too.
Those websites say that we can’t let refugees into our country because they might be terrorists. We must turn our backs on a humanitarian crisis because Muslims hate Christians. Is that what Jesus would tell you to do? No, I think Jesus would walk right into their midst. He’d be kind and brave and helpful, and that is what he wants us to do, except we are missing the key ingredient.
Brave. The average American—and I include myself in that number—is not brave anymore. We’re too comfortable in our little houses with central air conditioning and our dishwashers and our televisions as our windows on the outside world. I’m not going to say we’re all cowards because we still can be capable of doing extraordinary things if necessary. More than that, police, firefighters, the military, doctors and others face the possibility of needing to be brave every day…and that in itself is an act of bravery. And even average Americans can act in brave ways when circumstances call for it—but we’d all rather not be put in those extreme positions, right?
I saw something recently that inspired me. It was on the most recent John Oliver show where he was investigating Guantanamo Bay. Included in the show was an interview with the Former Chief of Staff to Colin Powell, Col. Lawrence Wilkerson. Wilkerson said about closing Guantanamo Bay and releasing the men who remain held there without trial, “As an American citizen who is not a coward, I’d be willing to release every one of them tomorrow morning and face them on the battlefield again if necessary, but we’ve got a lot of cowards in the country these days.”
He’s not wrong.
If we want this country to remain “the home of the brave”, we’ve got to stop relying on our military to be the only brave ones. We average Americans have to step up our games too. Again, I include myself in that number. It’s too easy to sit comfortably in our own homes, sipping coffee and tapping away at our computers. Some of that is okay, but we need to collectively get off our asses and do something brave, too. Every single day. Stop believing the world is out to take what we have and start giving a little back. I know some people who do this every day, people who work tirelessly for admirable causes. I’m ashamed that I am not one of them.
So today I’m going to get up and do something brave. It won’t be anything big, probably. But I’ve got a literal mountain of things that needs to be given to charity in my dining room. Maybe I’ll start the process of getting that stuff where it needs to be. It’s a small thing, but it’s something.
I would like to preface this post by saying, I’m having a really hard time not cussing while writing it. I am so angry, it’s literally hard for me NOT to type obscenities.
Yesterday a poll came out that revealed two things. First of all, if only women were voting, Hillary Clinton would win by a landslide.
The second thing it revealed was the nature of many of Trump’s supporters, both men and (gag) women. Their response? #repealthe19th
If you don’t get that, the 19th amendment is the one passed in 1920, after a 70-year-plus battle in which literal blood was shed by our mostly female ancestors. It’s the one that gave women the right to vote. It’s a right I now take for granted, but it’s a right that was granted extremely reluctantly by male politicians who’d had free reign of our country for its entire history.
Do you think politicians today would take it away if they could? Do you think they’d “#repealthe19th” if we didn’t outnumber them? Some of them would. Look at what the Republican Party has become. They want to defund Planned Parenthood, which is the only reliable source of healthcare for some women. They’re repeatedly ignoring the sexist things their presidential nominee says and does, making excuses for his graphic description of sexual assault. And now, when it’s obvious they won’t win because smart women everywhere refuse to vote for their candidate, they begin calling for women to lose the right to vote. And somehow, there are women going along with this?
I don’t personally care if “#repealthe19th” was said in jest. Some things should never be said. The right to vote was won by our foremothers through marches and tireless meetings and lobbying. During an event that has become known as The Night of Terror, 33 members of the National Woman’s Party who were picketing the White House were arrested for “obstructing sidewalk traffic” and thrown in a workhouse where they were beaten and tortured. They were left tied up overnight, fed food with worms in it and force fed with a tube down their throats when they refused to eat it.
You want to say #repealthe19th to my face?
If you vote for Donald Trump in November, you are spitting in the face of the women who suffered to give us the right to vote.
You know what? Trump supporters are always saying we shouldn’t be politically correct, so here’s how I really feel. If you are one of those people who said #repealthe19th, you should have your right to vote taken away. If you don’t believe Trump described sexual assault or that it doesn’t matter, you should not be allowed to vote. If you are a woman who still supports Donald Trump, you obviously have no concern for the world our daughters will live in. And maybe YOU shouldn’t be allowed to vote either.
Here’s an idea. Let’s administer IQ tests at the polls. If it falls in the idiot range, you don’t get a vote.
Please read this.
I’m a freaking romance writer, why the hell am I getting involved in politics?
Because the prospect of President Donald Trump terrifies me on a personal level, and I’m going to try to explain that.
And it’s not the so-called “salty language”/”locker room talk”, although for the record that locker room talk described actions that NO ONE should be okay with. I fear a Donald Trump presidency because I don’t think he has the emotional maturity to be president, and he will end up being an authoritarian at best. A dictator, more likely.
Think about it. He’s displayed all the signs. He is vindictive. He has shown himself to possess bullying tendencies. He calls people names and threatens them if they don’t do what he wants. He’s publicly threatened Hillary Clinton at least three times that we know of. He bans media outlets that don’t say what he wants them to say, calling them “unfair”. He threatens lawsuits for almost anything. He’s shown a total disregard for and lack of knowledge of the Constitution and international laws on several occasions.
If Donald Trump is elected president, I won’t agree with him. He doesn’t believe in the equality of races and sexes. He doesn’t believe in climate change, and I am very sure that if we have a president who denies climate change in the face of all scientific proof for four years, we’ll do uncontrollable damage to the environment.
If he is elected president and follows through on the promise to force his Attorney General to appoint ANOTHER special prosecutor to investigate Hillary Clinton and spend billions more of our tax dollars on ANOTHER investigation of our tax dollars, I will have to protest that, because it will put our entire system in jeopardy.
I will write every word I can to protest what he does that I feel is wrong. I will watch every move he makes as president, and I will fight every way I know how to try to make our nation a decent place for my children to live.
And there’s the rub. I will fight using the only real weapon I have. The written word. And we well know that Donald Trump does not believe in Freedom of the Press. In other authoritarian regimes, writers who fight the government end up in jail or dead. Their families are threatened or just disappear. Sometimes they flee their country.
If Donald Trump is elected president, writers are going to have to be as brave as soldiers. Journalists are going to have to make a commitment to fighting, right here on our own home turf. We’ll have to fight for what we believe is right, no matter the consequences. Because our nation will be at stake.
Which is why I beg you, if you believe in truth and freedom and justice, don’t vote for Donald Trump. I’d rather you vote for Gary Johnson. Write in Mike Pence or Paul Ryan. Jeb Bush was my pick for Republican nominee, honestly. Vote for him. I don’t fear any of those politicians. I don’t respect or agree with many of them, either, but I don’t fear them. Because I believe I could disagree with them and still go home at night and feel safe.
Trump surrogates have been all over the map trying to defend their candidate from his own words on the leaked video. First, it was just “locker room talk”. And was he really saying anything that bad? No…that’s not sexual assault he’s describing. Besides, Hollywood has glorified rape culture for years… Just look at 50 Shades of Grey!
That last one gets me. Really? As a romance writer and reader, I’m no fan of 50 Shades of Grey, but I did read it, and I know that the author made it very clear that the actions were consensual. The female character even signs a contract, for heaven’s sake. You’d think that would be something an American businessman would understand. But besides that, how does this even apply? Are they saying a work of fiction is somehow comparable to running for President of the United States? Are they saying that Donald Trump has been unfairly influenced by the glorification of rape culture in books, movies and television?
Can he not separate reality from fiction?
No. Don’t use 50 Shades of Grey or any other work of romance fiction (and believe me, I only reluctantly include 50 Shades in that category) to excuse bad behavior. Don’t say that we can’t be offended by Donald Trump’s words if we read it. Because romance fiction, erotic or not, is fantasy. It is not meant to be believed or acted out.
Unless you really can’t separate reality from fiction, you cannot brag about sexually assaulting women and then compare it to books, movies or television. And if Donald Trump can’t separate reality from fiction, he sure as hell should not be running for President.
It’s not a decision I made lightly. Friends and colleagues both warned me not to jump into the political arena this year. “You’ll alienate your reader base,” they said. “You’re a romance author. You’ll sound like you’re trying to be an expert at something you’re not trained in.”
What did I do? I ignored them. And there’s a very simple reason why. This year isn’t about politics at all. Politics are about policies, and there must always be some give and take about policies. This year is different. This year is about defending our country’s values, principles and freedoms. They are in danger, and Donald Trump is the threat.
I started my crusade on Facebook at the beginning of the year, trying to encourage friends and family to truly look at what Donald Trump had said and done since launching his presidential campaign. His off-the-cuff remarks about Mexicans being rapists and drug dealers, his horrible comments about women, his passion for waterboarding and other forms of torture, and the worst of all, to me at least, his advocating for killing the families of terrorists. And let’s not forget his promises to limit both freedom of the press and freedom of religion. Any of the other Republican candidates would have been better for our nation. But they didn’t become the presidential nominee. Trump did. And so I vowed to keep posting until Donald Trump was no longer a threat to my country.
Well, he’s still out there. And I’m still writing my articles for whatever they’re worth. And that’s part of why this blog has been so neglected. I’ve only let my politics sneak on here once or twice before. But with the election less than a month away, I’ve made a decision. I hope it’s not a dumb one.
I hope it doesn’t make you hate me or decide not to read my books. If it does, that’s my loss.
In an attempt to reach more voters, I’ll be posting on here now. You’ll see what I believe in right up front. There’s nothing romantic about politics, but there is passion. Passion for preserving our country’s founding principles. There is love. Love for our country and our fellow man. There is desire. Desire to make our country a better place for everyone.
And that’s why, for the next month, I’m dedicating this blog to anyone who believes that we must defeat Donald J. Trump in the 2016 Presidential Election. I’ll post my #StopTrump articles here and then to Facebook. If any of my other talented, like-minded fellow writers wishes to join me, I will welcome them.
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